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Tips For Avoiding Unnecessary Drama: Part 2

When situations and emotions from them are kept bottled up what do you think happens? Have you experienced that yet? There can be an implosion (internal eruption) or an explosion (external eruption) and neither of them feel good. We often may even feel "crazy". Some tips to express yourself without feeling like you are nagging them, no matter who they are

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Overcoming Low Self Esteem Through Christ

Overcoming Low Self-Esteem: Knowing Your Worth Am I enough? Do I bring anything of value to the table? Does it matter that I'm here? Is there a point to my existence? Do these thoughts sound familiar? Low self-esteem can manifest itself in so many ways. Feeling inferior to others, lack of confidence, comparing yourself to others, feeling threatened by the success of others, and the list goes on and on. Most of these issues stem from a deep-seated feeling of worthlessness. And that comes from not knowing or understanding your true value. The Bible says, "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge…" Hosea 4:6 (NKJV) But when you know the truth it makes you free. "And you shall know...

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History of Co Dependency

It’s not impossible to beat it, treat yourself as a friend and stop comparing yourself to others and being insecure. Comparison can cause you to be sad. If you’re not happy wherever you are these days, it will not say something about how you’ll become two to three years from now. Remind yourself of what you’ve got, like sensible friends, a happy family, and healthy life. 

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Logic and Emotional Thinking for Codependent People

Imaging living with just your emotions!! Or Imagine living with logic alone! If we walk around with an emotional mind we look like someone who has no self control and ultimately lower self esteem. Or, a big one, distrust in most people around us because of our own unrealistic expectations of the world.  If we walk around with logic all day, we look like someone who judges, seems heartless, or believes there is no middle ground. For a person who uses logic less, this may seem like the ideal place to be. For a person who uses emotion less, they may feel as though they don't need proof of something to know what it is! Sheesh! There has to be...

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Loneliness Prevention and Overcoming

Loneliness: A state of mind which can be felt more than once a week. Feeling empty, isolated, alone, and unwanted. People crave human contact but find difficulty making connections.  Loneliness can be contributed to low self esteem Song of Solomon 4:7 ESV You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you. Feeling unworthy of attention: Matthew 6:1-34 “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven... Leading to more isolation and chronic illness. 2 Corinthians 12:9 ESV But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast...

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